"Men marry because they are tired; women because they are curious. Both are disappointed."
"One should always be in love. That is the reason one should never marry."
- Oscar Wilde
廖堉安《小蘑菇雕塑》; 李宜全《早睡早起》
相愛很難
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先是Dreamhunter最近post的《Companion》,滲着絲絲甜味。然後從電視看了這則新聞:紀念珍珠婚的萬氏夫婦喜孜孜地重遊當年結婚地點海洋公園。再加上十天內見證了兩個溫馨的婚禮,感覺在一片anti-marriage的漩渦中, 仍然看得見愛, 如何在汪洋大海中推進人向前航。
無懼及無悔婚姻的人,實在要向你們致十分的敬!
"Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead."
- Oscar Wilde
就是這句了,仍教人盼望愛。文豪即是文豪(愛煞他的文字^^),論及婚姻、愛或友情也好,依然字字珠璣:
"Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation."
- Oscar Wilde
如果愛,請talk to her/him。On anything, anything!
4 comments:
「戀愛,就是一生也有說不完的話。」 這是我的戀愛觀,今天讀了你的文章才知道 wilde 的 conversation 名句。謝謝你。
98年到法國讀法文暑期班,初級。大家的法文是 he she it... 19歲的美國男孩和17歲的羅馬尼亞女孩同住一個寄宿家庭,然後,他們戀愛了。大家的相通語言就只有 he she it... 但他們戀愛了,甜甜地,亦苦苦地。
借花敬佛而已,不用謝啦!Wilde的名言往往一針見血,亦令人再三回味。
你同學的故事有點像《我愛巴黎》中Gus Van Sant的《Le Marais》,雞同鴨講,但互相吸引。不過並非人人做到,起碼我自己就覺得很難了。
yea agree with dreamhunter, thanks for bringing up Wilde's words...:)
Most welcome here. Wilde is a great writer. I keep learning from his wisdom.
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